Creating Your Reality

Yesterday at the beginning of a group Zoom call, a colleague asked me if I considered myself a perfectionist. I replied that yes I do and wondered what made her ask. One of the reasons she listed was that I was always on time.

[I'm going to pause here for my friends and family to stop laughing and peel themselves off of the floor.]

The thing is, in person, I'm not usually on time. So while I do identify as a Type A perfectionist being on time has always been an outlier for me. Or so I thought.

What's really happening is that my perfectionism means that I believe ev