Can You Relate?

I turned 46 on Tuesday. And you know how much I love my personal New Year!

One of the things I like to do is reflect on the previous year and set some intentions for the year to come. As I was looking back at 45, there were many big life events including getting married and buying a new house.

Which if you've ever done either of those you know wedding planning and moving are basically code for “make millions of decisions”! I loved it. In fact, my favorite room in our new house is where I started with a blank slate and got to make every decision down to the tiniest detail.

But if you'd rather do almost anything else besides make a decision, let's figure out why.

 If you think: I'm bad at making decisions.

Nope. You're just looking in the wrong places for the answers. If you're asking Chat, Googling, calling your mom and your BFF, and/or polling your coworkers every time a decision needs to be made, you have no idea if you're “bad” at decisions. Because you aren't making them.

If you think: I'm worried I'll make the wrong decision.

Based on whose standard? If you follow your intuition, it's impossible to make the wrong decision. It's more likely you're making the wrong decision when you shut down what you want and do what you think others expect of you or what you should do.

If you think: I"m so indecisive. 

Probably not. I bet you know what you want and the “indecision” is you telling yourself you don't deserve it or worrying about what other people will think. If you owned it instead of doubted it, you wouldn't feel indecisive.

Regardless of the reason you don't like making decisions, there's a way to make it easier and straightforward. Your Human Design Authority tells you your process for making intuitive, aligned decisions.

When you know your process, you're less likely to outsource your decisions or talk yourself out of what you want. And you're more likely to trust yourself to know what's right for you.

This is the kind of work I do with my clients. If you'd like to learn more about 1:1 coaching with me, schedule a Life Strategy Call.