How often do you tell yourself you have to do something? Or that you don't have a choice?
My clients tell me things like...
It has to get done.
I have to keep this job until I find another one.
Someone has to take care of it.
Sound familiar?
It's a total lie.
You always have a choice. Every time. In every situation.
Today I coached a client about all of the things on her to do list. One of them was to get her tax information together to send to her accountant. She said, "I'm the only one who's going to do it and it has to get done".
Except it doesn't. There are lots of people that don't pay their taxes. And yes, there are consequences for them if the IRS finds out, but there are still people that choose to take that risk.
When you reframe what you do as a choice, you realize how much control you actually have in your life.
My client is choosing to abide by the law and file her taxes on time. But after we talked about it she realized that she could choose not to file them. Or she could choose to ask for an extension. She has options.
When you believe you have to do something, it takes away your ability to look for other options. It also makes you feel out of control and powerless.
Try reframing every "have to" in your life as a choice. For each one, ask yourself if you want to continue to choose it.
If the answer is no, what do you want to choose instead? Why aren't you making that choice?
I help my clients take control of their lives by making conscious choices that align with their unique Human Design and destined purpose. I can do that for you too.
Are you a successful woman who feels unfulfilled? I can help you reignite your passion and purpose. Now is the time to start living the life you're designed to have! Schedule a consult to learn more about how you can use your Human Design to enjoy your life without the pressure.
During the consult we'll talk about what's missing for you, where you want to be, and the process to get you there. You'll also get a copy of your Human Design chart along with some insights from me that you can start using right away.