Think about a decision you need to make. It could be arranging furniture, changing careers, or what to have for dinner.
Now think about how much time you've spent "deciding". How much of your day do you spend with that decision on your mind? Once you've made the decision how much time and brain space will you have? Making decisions gives you more time because you're able to move on to the next thing. When you avoid making a decision which is really what you're doing when you say you're "deciding" you procrastinate and dwell instead of moving on.
Are you constantly stuck in indecision and don't know why? It's because you don't have the confidence in yourself to make the decision.
Indecision breeds insecurity.
That insecurity then leads to further indecision. It's a vicious cycle.
Once you have the confidence to make decisions you'll more time and less drama. And, more importantly, you'll have the ability to get what you want.
Your unwillingness to make decisions is what's keeping you stuck. The only thing standing between you and the life you want are decisions.
Decisions are a basis for confidence and action.
If you don't decide you can't take actions towards your goals. If you don't take any action you'll stay exactly where you are.
Tell yourself that you already know the right decision and see how you feel. What would you do? Now go do that!
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